If you want to have sex with the partner of someone else, then it is usually the case that the partner of the person you are having sex with, is going to have sex with your partner. But this is not always the case. Within the swingers community it happens more and more that once in a while couples are looking for an extra man for trio sex. In the past, it was kind of normal for a couple to have a threesome with an extra woman. Not only because a lot of women are bisexual in the swingers world, but also for the pleasure of the men. A blowjob is much more fun when it is given by two women at the same time.
First Time For Everything: Swinging
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But believe it or not, it can, and there are more couples interested in doing it than you may realize. Below, four women get real about what their own swinging experiences were really like. Remember that before you take the plunge on some new sexual activity, you and your partner want to talk things out and make sure you both feel emotionally and physically safe to move forward! My husband knew that I was bi-curious when we met, so on the anniversary of our first date, we decided to explore and went to a swingers club. Not all experiences were percent pleasurable, so we made an effort to have those conversations and keep the lines of communication open. When you talk about [swinging] it makes it so much easier to discuss other issues in the relationship. Also, you need to have conversations with your spouse or partner before you go into it.
Swingers groups in New York
For this installment of our weekly interview series, Love, Actually , about the reality of women's sex lives, we spoke with Vera a pseudonym , a married woman who unexpectedly got into swinging during a tenth-anniversary cruise. I came across a "clothing optional lifestyle takeover cruise. We assumed "lifestyle" meant BDSM. We figured we could still go, even though we didn't plan to participate.
When I first set out to write about swinging for an article about the lifestyle, the last thing I expected was to find myself nodding when a slim, curly-haired brunette asks if she may take off my panties. The bartender, a curvy blonde, leans over to kiss me. My favorite black bra is on the floor.